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The Heart Behind My Camera: Why I Document Real Life for Real Families

September 24, 2025

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I’ll be honest, as a family photographer in the San Francisco Bay Area, I prefer hiding behind the lens. And talking about myself on camera is about as fun as getting my first AARP invite in the mail.

But here we are with two double whammy milestones this year: approaching the big 5-0 (!!!) and my biz turning 10.

And as one does when facing a midlife existential crisis, I handled it with the same reverence and fervor as an emo teenager and made a video.

After all, it’s about time I stepped out from behind the lens and got real…in video. But what began as sharing my heart evolved into appreciating how I’ve grown and stayed true to my promise to find beauty in the mess of every day. And although it was scary to get in the frame on video (with my Midwestern accent and all), it was also equal parts therapeutic and felt like I was giving the younger version of myself a big hug.

Thank you for being a part of this journey and for trusting me to capture your beautiful everyday moments.

If you’re curious about capturing your family’s story in San Francisco, the East Bay, or anywhere throughout the Bay Area, I’d be thrilled to hear from you. It’s a joy to be part of a family’s journey and to help preserve those moments that matter most.

Wheter it be with family video or family photos, let’s continue to be brave and show up for ourselves and each other.

About Me

Real people are my favorite.

It's why I appointed myself the family documentarian early on, carefully recording life unfolding, and learning along the way how much I love visual storytelling. I picked up my first professional camera when my child was born, knowing those early years were dawning and full of change — and I never looked back. I can't imagine doing anything else.

I'm a maximalist in every sense: all-in on a project or power napping, rarely anything in between. A little weird and impressively clumsy, with absolutely zero shame dancing in public. I live in Alameda (aka the Midwest of the Bay Area) with my husband, my teen, and a menagerie of animals. Fair warning: I bring my outdated 90s dance moves to every session.

My upbringing taught me to find beauty where others see ordinary. Motherhood only deepened that instinct, and I've been known to cry at the drop of a hat. Kleenex is a standing item on my packing list for newborn sessions.

I'm awkward at small talk and large groups are where I go quiet — which is exactly why you'll never find me working weddings or large events, and why you will find me completely at home in yours. I work best in the intimate, the real, and the messy.

I invest deeply in the people I work with and pour my whole heart into every session. Walking away with friendships after a session is always a major bonus — and it's the reason I love my job as much as I do.

WORK WITH ME

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